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November 18, 1912

November 18, 2022 Helen Goldsmith

From 8-year old Hilda’s diary:

This afternoon after school I had to stand up for hours and hours and hours while Miss Sarah lengthened all my dresses. I don’t know Miss Sarah’s last name because that is all anyone ever calls her. She is a very little lady who always has her teeth full of pins and it looks as if they are sticking in her tongue. She never laughs or smiles, she just always sews and sews except sometimes when the pins aren’t in her mouth she does talk a little and nearly always about funerals. Sometimes she talks about what she had to eat in other people’s homes but she really loves funerals and tells us what they wore, the dead people, and how they looked and if they looked really dead or if they looked like they did in life and if they received a lot of flowers and if their families cried or looked glad.

In Before 1919 Tags Hilda, San Francisco

November 17, 1912

November 17, 2022 Helen Goldsmith

From 8-year old Hilda’s diary:

Sunday school. The ninth commandment. “Thou Shalt Not Bear False Witness Against Thy Neighbor.” That means that you shouldn’t tell lies about your neighbors. I asked if that meant people on the next block too and she said of course and it means that you shouldn’t tell lies about anyone in the whole world. I guess that is what Grandmother did when she told Grandma Uri that Mrs. Bohn starves her poor husband. Once when I was on my way to school and Mrs. Bohn was in her front garden, she stopped me and asked how my Grandmother was. I said, “Grandmother is very well thank you, but she is very worried about Mr. Bohn and do you really starve your husband?” Mrs. Bohn became very angry and said for me to tell my Grandmother that she should mind her own business and that Mr. Bohn was sick with something that sounded like “Beets,” I couldn’t understand the name of it but she told me to tell my Grandmother that she shouldn’t make any judgments out of ignorance and that she should take good care of her own husband because Mrs. Bohn was sure that she would never get another one.

In Before 1919 Tags Hilda, San Francisco

November 16, 1912

November 16, 2022 Helen Goldsmith

From 8-year old Hilda’s diary:

Tante Esther was here for lunch today. I had a pretty new lace dress for dancing school. She felt all over it and said, “It is very lovely but is your underwear also nice and clean?” I was awfully mad. I yelled at her, “Of course it is, I put on clean underwear every day, sometimes twice a day if I change my dress when company comes to the house.” Then she said that I am right to be so clean and she said it is very important to have clean underwear because you never know when you are going to be run over in the street and then how shameful it would be to be taken to the hospital and have all the doctors and nurses see us in soiled underwear.

In Before 1919 Tags Hilda, San Francisco

November 15, 1912

November 15, 2022 Helen Goldsmith

From 8-year old Hilda’s diary:

This was one of the game days again at school. We started with Holland. We all knew all about Holland because we have two beautiful Dutch Windmills in Golden Gate Park. Holland is a lovely country. It is so tiny that you can walk almost all over it in a few hours or maybe it’s a few days, I forget what Miss Cashen told us. The people are very clean. The women spend all their time scrubbing their sidewalks and doorsteps. They wash their cows every day too. They can’t bathe themselves every day because they have no bathrooms, but it seems to me that if they are so clean about everything else they must find a way to wash themselves only I don’t know how they do it. There is one little village called Edam and it is full of cows too and they use the milk to make a special cheese and send it all over the world wrapped in red wax and pretty red paper like a Christmas package. Many great people lived in Holland once. One of them was Rembrandt. Miss Cashen said that we should find out about him for next week and tell her all about him because she doesn’t know anything except that he is famous, and that we would be doing her a big favor to help her find out.


When I was a child, the windmills in Golden Gate Park were not much to see — they were in disrepair and looked nothing like they did when Hilda visited them. Happily, they have been restored and today they look wonderful.

The windmills as Hilda would have seen them, circa 1912. Photo courtesy OpenSFHistory.

The windmills as I remember them when I was Hilda’s age. Photo courtesy OpenSFHistory.

The windmills today

In Before 1919 Tags Hilda, San Francisco

November 14, 1912

November 14, 2022 Helen Goldsmith

From 8-year old Hilda’s diary:

I love spelling lessons because there are always new words in them. Today one of the new ones was “ancestors.” I was the only one in class who knew what it meant. That is not because I am smart but because I saw it in “Little Lord Fauntleroy.” Alma explained it to me then. When Cedric was in the art gallery of his grandfather’s castle, the Earl of Dorincourt showed him the pictures of his ancestors and Cedric thought they were his aunt’s sisters. Our ancestors are all our great, great grandparents, and all their great, great grandparents forever and ever back in time to Adam and Eve, I guess.


Today Hilda gives us an example of a “mondegreen.” Former San Francisco Chronicle columnist Jon Carroll wrote about them often and his columns always made me smile. One of my few claims to local fame was when he included in one of his columns a mondegreen I had sent him.

In Before 1919 Tags Hilda, San Francisco, literature

November 13, 1912

November 13, 2022 Helen Goldsmith

From 8-year old Hilda’s diary:

Uncle Otto phoned this morning and spoke to Grandfather and told him that he wanted to buy a horse and wanted him to look at it first because my Grandfather knows a lot about horses. The horse was in the country, so Grandfather said he would be glad to go and said that he would bring the child along. I was so happy to go and it really wasn’t far out of San Francisco but the street became a road and there were just fields and barns and white houses with porches so it was almost like the country. We went to one of the little houses and there was a very nice lady and gentleman and lots of darling dogs and cats, all kinds. They invited us to sit on the porch and the lady brought us lemonade with chocolate cookies and we sat and visited until we finished the lemonade and ate most of the cookies. Then we went out to the barn to look at the horse Uncle Otto wanted to buy. Grandfather opened the horse’s mouth and looked very carefully at all his teeth and then the man walked the horse around. I thought he was a sweet brown horse but Grandfather told Uncle Otto the horse was old enough to vote and he didn’t buy the horse, and told the man that he would think it over and perhaps come back some other time. I don’t see what being old enough to vote has to do with it. I love the smell of horses and I wouldn’t mind if Grandfather smelled like one.

In Before 1919 Tags Hilda, San Francisco

November 12, 1912

November 12, 2022 Helen Goldsmith

From 8-year old Hilda’s diary:

Uncle Milton told me that there is going to be a dog show in San Rafael on the twenty-third of this month and he would like to put Brownie into it and maybe Brownie would win a prize. I asked him what he would win. He said that it might be a silver cup or a blue ribbon or even both. I said that was just plain mean, why didn’t they give him a nice steak or a roast beef bone or a new ball? Uncle Milton said that I shouldn’t worry so much about it because Brownie would be in competition with many other dogs and probably wouldn’t get anything at all as he isn’t so perfect or so beautiful. Then I got mad and said that he too is beautiful, he is the most beautiful dog in the whole world and I stamped my feet and yelled and I said that they don’t have to give him a prize at all because I would buy him a blue ribbon myself and a pink one or whatever color I thought Brownie would like if I had enough money. I said that I would give him my silver egg cup that my grandparents in Germany sent to me, the one with little chickens on it and that’s all gold inside. Uncle Milton said that I should and it was fine with him and that as a matter of fact, I should wrap it up right now with pink and blue ribbons because he knows that Brownie won’t win a prize. Why are grown-ups so mean, even Uncle Milton?

In Before 1919 Tags Hilda, San Francisco

November 11, 1912

November 11, 2022 Helen Goldsmith

From 8-year old Hilda’s diary:

Even Grandfather is angry at me and wants to punish me today, just because I didn’t want to use any of the money I earned to buy Tante Esther some flowers. This afternoon he took me to call on her. I had a dollar and ten cents and he said that now I must learn what money is for, it is to make people happy with and I must take fifty cents and buy Tante Esther some roses. I said that I thought Tante Esther was happy enough without any roses and besides she isn’t sick in bed. Grandfather got awfully angry and he took fifty cents out of his own pocket and when we passed a flower shop, he dragged me in and made me tell the man myself that I wanted twelve pink roses. I did get the roses but I didn’t tell Tante Esther anything and Grandfather is still angry.

In Before 1919 Tags San Francisco, Hilda

November 10, 1912

November 10, 2022 Helen Goldsmith

From 8-year old Hilda’s diary:

The eighth commandment is a very important one. “Thou Shalt Not Steal.” I suppose it is still important, at least when I was a little girl, I was told not to. Miss Meadows said that it was especially important when Moses was taking the Jews out of Egypt and through the wilderness because it kept them from stealing out of each other’s tents. I asked her what was in the tents to steal because I know when my uncles go camping they leave all their nice things at home. She said that it was quite different because my uncles know that they are coming home again but the Jews knew that they were never going back to Egypt and they took all their nice things with them, like rings and bracelets and maybe beautiful pieces of embroidery. So then I remembered and said, like Moses’ pomegranates. She said, “Yes.”

In Before 1919 Tags Hilda, San Francisco

November 9, 1912

November 9, 2022 Helen Goldsmith

From 8-year old Hilda’s diary:

At dancing school today Mrs. Hinman chose who will dance in the Christmas Pageant. I am just going to stand up next to the manger.

In Before 1919 Tags Hilda, San Francisco

November 8, 1912

November 8, 2022 Helen Goldsmith

From 8-year old Hilda’s diary:

Today Miss Cashen asked us if we would like to go back to Europe and we all raised our hands and yelled yes. So she said fine, where were we? Margaret remembered that we were in Norway, so then Miss Cashen said well, let’s go to Sweden next. Sweden is famous for very clean people. Also for fine carpenters and weavers and for a Mr. Nobel who invented dynamite. He said that when he invented it, he thought people would blow up ugly things, like the statue that we have at the top of our stairs, or maybe Tante Esther’s ugly parlor. He didn’t think that they would use it for wicked things like blowing up each other in a war. And then when they did, he was very sad and tried to think of what he could do to make up for it. So now, every single year he gives wonderful prizes to the people who write the best books or invent the best medicines or discover some new germs and the top prize is a prize for the person who did most to make peace in the world. Then we went on to Denmark. She said that the Danes are the gentlest people in the whole world. I asked if Great Danes came from Denmark and she said yes, and that a friend of hers who lives in Denmark has two of them and they are called Hamlet and Horatio after two good friends who are characters in a famous play. She said that the play was written by England’s most famous poet and that we would talk about it when we got to England. She said that we still had lots to talk about all the things that Denmark is noted for and that there is still a tiny country near Denmark called Finland that we should visit and talk about too. Then she said that Denmark has beautiful dishes called Royal Copenhagen after their city and beautiful silver. And Denmark is the birthplace of Hans Christian Andersen who wrote such wonderful fairy tales like the “Ugly Duckling.” Robert asked if Denmark is also famous for Danish pastry and Miss Cashen said that she supposed so.

In Before 1919 Tags Hilda, San Francisco, literature

November 6, 1912

November 6, 2022 Helen Goldsmith

From 8-year old Hilda’s diary:

Today I got a lovely present from my father’s sister in Germany. She is my Aunt Paula and she is married but she doesn’t have any children. She sent me a beautiful chocolate fish that she made all by herself. It doesn’t taste like plain chocolate, like the Ghirardelli kisses. It’s much, much better. Grandmother calls it marzipan. There is a beautiful card with it. The card is an angel with golden hair and real forget-me-nots embroidered all over her dress. It is a beautiful dress and I wouldn’t mind being an angel if I could wear a dress like that.

I am going to write to Aunt Paula and tell her how much I liked the card and the candy and I want to send her something too, maybe a pen wiper.


Hilda takes the day off tomorrow and will return on November 8.

In Before 1919 Tags Hilda, San Francisco

November 5, 1912

November 5, 2022 Helen Goldsmith

From 8-year old Hilda’s diary:

Some of my Uncle Milton’s friends were here for dinner tonight and I begged Grandmother to let me be allowed to come to the table because I love to hear all those things they say about dogs. They talked only about dogs. I learned lots of things. It is very important what father and mother a dog has. When a puppy is born they always describe it as being born by someone out of someone else. “By someone” means the father and “out of someone” means the mother. I asked them if my baby cousin Helen Violet was by my Uncle Albert and out of my Aunt Hazel and they all laughed.

In Before 1919 Tags Hilda, San Francisco

November 4, 1912

November 4, 2022 Helen Goldsmith

From 8-year old Hilda’s diary:

This afternoon I went shopping with Grandmother. I always get tired going to the stores so today, just to reward me for not whining, Grandmother let me select a book in the Book Department while she was buying curtains. The lady in the book department said that I was a little too young to read it but that it is a book I’ll enjoy my whole life. It is “Little Women” by Louisa May Alcott. I love having a book on my shelf waiting for me but I think I will try to read it soon because I know a lot about Louisa May Alcott from my book of famous women. Right now it looks very beautiful on my book shelf.


Hilda told us about the book on famous women in her September 1st entry.

In Before 1919 Tags Hilda, San Francisco, literature

November 3, 1912

November 3, 2022 Helen Goldsmith

From 8-year old Hilda’s diary:

The commandment we learned this morning is a really new one. No one in the class heard of it before. It is the seventh one. “Thou Shalt Not Commit Adultery.” But Miss Meadows says that it is a commandment we don’t have to think much about right now because we will not do it until we are grown up. Only grown-ups do it, when they are adults, and that’s why they call it adultery.

In Before 1919 Tags Hilda, San Francisco

November 2, 1912

November 2, 2022 Helen Goldsmith

From 8-year old Hilda’s diary:

The dreadful Mr. Kirby and Mrs. Kirby, well I don’t like either of them, came again this afternoon. Mr. Kirby is always trying to sit me on his lap and he smells like cigars and he is fat and has no lap to sit on so I can easily slide off.

In Before 1919 Tags Hilda, San Francisco

November 1, 1912

November 1, 2022 Helen Goldsmith

On Friday afternoons we have no real work. Miss Cashen reads to us out of books that are not school books or we talk about anything we want to without raising our hands for permission. This afternoon Miss Cashen said, “I think it would be nice if we would all take a trip to Europe. Who knows anything about any European country?” Antoinette said she knew all about Italy because her father was born in Genoa and so was Columbus. Miss Cashen said that was most interesting and would Antoinette tell us what her father remembers best about living there. Antoinette said that what her father likes best about Italy is spaghetti, and he is always telling her mother that hers wasn’t nearly as good as what his mother made. Miss Cashen said of course, Italian spaghetti was very fine but Italy had other fine things: Art Galleries and wonderful old palaces and beautiful churches. I said that I knew about the churches. I described the marble cake that daddy’s friend serves when we have tea at her house. Miss Cashen said that we should go on to another country and we would come back to Italy another time. So she said France and asked us what France was famous for? Wesley said the French language and Margaret said perfume. She said that once her mother had a bottle of French perfume. A nice man brought it to her one afternoon and when her father came home, he was awfully mad and threw it out of the window and her mother was even madder. Then Miss Cashen said we mustn’t forget Germany. And then she said to me, “Hilda! Your family came from Germany and you speak a little German. Were you born there?” I said, “No, I was born in New York but nearly everyone else in my family were born in either Germany or Austria.” I told them that I know that Germany was a very beautiful country, full of forest and castles and cuckoo clocks and there was a man named Beethoven who wrote beautiful music and I had learned to play “Für Elise” which he wrote for a little girl named Elise. And I told them about the Rhine river and about the “Lorelei” who combed their golden hair on a special rock and the sailors who would crash their ships forgetting about the rocks because they had to see her. Miss Cashen thanked me and then we went to Spain. I raised my hand again and I said that I knew that there were bull fights in Spain and beautiful music called “Carmen.” I explained that “Carmen” is an Opera and that there is a song in it that my father sings when he is taking a bath, “The Toreador Song.” (I guess daddy sings in the bath tub because he can’t play his flute there, as it might get wet.) From Spain we jumped way up North to three lovely countries called Norway, Sweden and Denmark. Norway has wonderful forests and beautiful goats and cheese. The cheese is made from goats milk and it looks like the brown soap that Ito uses to scrub the kitchen and it tastes like the soap too. Norway is also famous for fish and for waterfalls and for beautiful lilacs in the springtime and for the Vikings. The Vikings were ugly men with beards and swords and spears who sailed all around the world grabbing other mens’ countries and wives.


Hilda wrote of the Lorelei song in her April 8th entry. My grandmother too referred to it in her writing, although I’m only realizing it now. In a story about her youth, she wrote of telling a man who was flirting with her that even if he had “Lorelei hair” she would refuse to listen. “Die Lorelei” is a famous German folk song from a poem by Heinrich Heine.

In Before 1919 Tags Hilda, San Francisco, Music, Helene, Vienna

October 31, 1912

October 31, 2022 Helen Goldsmith

From 8-year old Hilda’s diary:

Tonight is Halloween. That is a spooky night. All the dead people get out of their graves and walk around the city in sheets but the live ones are supposed to run around ringing doorbells and running away when people answer them. I am not allowed on the street even though I begged Grandfather to take me, but he wouldn’t. He said that he had no intention of ringing people’s doorbells and then running away. Tonight when he came home, he gave me a lovely chocolate witch sitting on a broomstick with a black cat.


Click here for a history of Halloween traditions.

In Before 1919 Tags Hilda, San Francisco

October 30, 1912

October 30, 2022 Helen Goldsmith

From 8-year old Hilda’s diary:

Alma called for me at school today and took me to Aunt Laura’s house. I love to go there because that’s where Bonnie lives. Tante Esther lives there too, but I don’t hate Tante Esther so much since I turned the hose on her. Today there were other people there too and we had a tea party. Before we left the table, Aunt Laura asked everyone if we had enough to eat and we all said yes, thank you. Of course I remembered but it sounds too silly. It is, “I have had a delightful sufficiency.” I said “No one talks like that, not even in the English story books.” Alma was very angry with me. She said that I couldn’t be excused from the table until I said it, but I didn’t care. I was finished anyhow. I didn’t say it and I don’t think I ever will.

In Before 1919 Tags Hilda, San Francisco

October 29, 1912

October 29, 2022 Helen Goldsmith

From 8-year old Hilda’s diary:

Something so funny happened last night. Aunt Etta’s sister and her husband were here for dinner and of course Claire too. Afterward we went to the parlor and right away Claire walked over to the cabinet and took Grandmother’s favorite ornament out of it. Such a pretty one. A little girl in a navy blue skirt and a yellow blouse and a pale blue handkerchief on her head and a basket over her arm and no shoes or stockings and she is walking across the grass with a lot of ducks and geese following her. Claire just held it in her hands. She didn’t hurt it at all and she was just going to put it back when Grandmother took it away from her. Then she dropped it. It broke into a million pieces. Then everyone went home. Grandmother sat down and cried but I couldn’t stop laughing even though I knew it was naughty to do so. Besides, I was sorry about the little goose girl. Grandmother was still mad this morning, and the more Grandfather kept telling her that it wasn’t Claire’s fault, the madder she got.

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